How often once u cross the teenager age friends, others and your experiences tells u that "everyone, boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, bestfriend has an end but family doesnt...." Ever thought about why is it so? what really makes our family so special? why in the whole world we try to look outside for people to talk.. try new people and in the end you dont get what u deserve? Why disappointment doesnt come even when u are just done with a huge fight? Why is it that we tend to question ur judgement of having ur best friend just after a small misunderstanding?
The answer is simple... with family comes commitment.... Its the only explanation that can be given... You've lived with ur family for the past 25+ years...... How can u let go of something towards which u were attached for so long? :) There the commitment comes both ways.. There would be moments when you would be having difficult times like.. u might be thinking ur parents are not doing enough for u, u feel there is a big generation gap because of which they're acting weird, ur parents feel u are the black sheep of the family, ur parents feel u dont understand the responsibility, u might feel ur parents doesnt care about u and they really dont know u.... Everything is true...
During other relationships, We tend to have fights, we have similar emotions, anger, hatred, trust issues, jealousy, partners not understanding each other, commitment issues, etc. Once u start to have such emotions in other relationships, u tend to lose interest or u might try to find someone better or one may choose not to go for any future commitment....
It is not that any of the relationship has an end..... Once we understand the meaning of the word commitment, i dont think there is anything else that would hold any relationship... Even through the greatest storm u will come out... that too not alone.... Commitment is like, when u throw a baby up..... it'll laugh.... why? because the baby knows that u will be there to hold him.... Even if u drop the baby once, it would still have that assurance that next time when u throw the baby up, u would be there to hold him... That is called as commitment... and it goes both ways... but that doesnt mean that if ur partner did something wrong, like dropping the baby, that he is not committed. Trust is another factor that u need to have... there is no excuse saying that u are a girl and u cannot trust ur partner.... No... If u trust ur family, u can have trust in other relationships too...
Having a broken relationship might lead us to take extreme steps like not getting committed at all... Well... thats not the lesson that we should've learnt... :) if u are afraid to give commitment next time, trust issues steps in... Its a cycle... u cannot run from it..... We have to forgive.. we need to learn from the kind of love u give ur family, to ur friends to keep a relationship from ending....
None of the relationship will have an end, unless u give up...
The answer is simple... with family comes commitment.... Its the only explanation that can be given... You've lived with ur family for the past 25+ years...... How can u let go of something towards which u were attached for so long? :) There the commitment comes both ways.. There would be moments when you would be having difficult times like.. u might be thinking ur parents are not doing enough for u, u feel there is a big generation gap because of which they're acting weird, ur parents feel u are the black sheep of the family, ur parents feel u dont understand the responsibility, u might feel ur parents doesnt care about u and they really dont know u.... Everything is true...
During other relationships, We tend to have fights, we have similar emotions, anger, hatred, trust issues, jealousy, partners not understanding each other, commitment issues, etc. Once u start to have such emotions in other relationships, u tend to lose interest or u might try to find someone better or one may choose not to go for any future commitment....
It is not that any of the relationship has an end..... Once we understand the meaning of the word commitment, i dont think there is anything else that would hold any relationship... Even through the greatest storm u will come out... that too not alone.... Commitment is like, when u throw a baby up..... it'll laugh.... why? because the baby knows that u will be there to hold him.... Even if u drop the baby once, it would still have that assurance that next time when u throw the baby up, u would be there to hold him... That is called as commitment... and it goes both ways... but that doesnt mean that if ur partner did something wrong, like dropping the baby, that he is not committed. Trust is another factor that u need to have... there is no excuse saying that u are a girl and u cannot trust ur partner.... No... If u trust ur family, u can have trust in other relationships too...
Having a broken relationship might lead us to take extreme steps like not getting committed at all... Well... thats not the lesson that we should've learnt... :) if u are afraid to give commitment next time, trust issues steps in... Its a cycle... u cannot run from it..... We have to forgive.. we need to learn from the kind of love u give ur family, to ur friends to keep a relationship from ending....
None of the relationship will have an end, unless u give up...
